Presiding over every wolf pack there is a leader, or Alpha-wolf, which
keeps
order within the pack. This wolf informs other wolves about their status
on a
particular day -- about how well they are doing, and about how poorly they
are
doing. Depending on the Alpha's style of leadership, the role might be
that of a
dictator or a guide, or the Alpha might adopt either of these roles at
different
times. All subordinate wolves look to this Alpha for leadership and direction.
Domestication has not nullified in the dog this ardent need to lead or
be led.
While dogs are light years distant from wolves in some respects, in other
matters
they still mimic wolves closely -- especially in their need for an Alpha
figure to
guide them -- and failing the presence of such a guide, the chance to assume
the
position themselves. For your dog, there should be absolutely no question
as to
who is the Alpha-figure in its life. You are; or more accurately, you'd
better be!
Trainers often express the above theories to their classes and private
clients in
crude ways that accentuate the "control" the owner must gain to be the
"boss."
Trainers will often say "Let him know who's boss!" and then hand out a
few
folklore corrections to whatever problem is at hand. Trouble is, just applying
those few corrections--even if they do seem to address the behavior problem
at
hand--will not, by itself, elevate the wimpy owner to anything approximating
Alpha-status in the naughty dog's mind. In fact, the
dog might rebel fiercely, getting into a dominance fight with the owner.
Or it
might correct itself on one set of problems (say, destructive chewing)
and
substitute another (marking in the house instead of chewing). A few folklore
corrections down the pike and the owner is still not Alpha.
Often a more holistic approach to bad behavior is called for--a literal
"hit-list" of
changes that are imposed on the dog in order to rattle its brains, disturb
the
status- quo and slot the owner in the starring role as Ms. or Mr. Alpha
once and
for all. Little things add up--and just as it was probably a plethora of
little
infractions, little slips, little forms of naughtiness that allowed the
situation
between dog and owner to deteriorate, it will be a series of little changes
and
renovations that will bring the relationship back into
sync and stop the problem behavior.
No Quick Fixes
If you are the owner of a problem dog, please reflect on the above comments
before reading on. You probably would prefer a "quick-fix" solution in
this
article--just one or two techniques that will cancel whatever behavior
problem
you are now putting up with from your dog. I must say to you: it's not
that easy
or that simple. Your problems with your dog, at root, are relational. The
dog
probably fancies himself the Alpha. Or he doesn't know who is. Or doesn't
care.
Or doesn't want to know. Whatever the case, you're not it. You might be
regarded as a friend, as a companion, as a littermate, as a lover, or as
all of the
above, but you're not regarded, at least not fully, as the Alpha. To grab
that role,
you have to take a radical approach to your problem dog. I am going to
suggest
20 different ruses you can pull to convince your pushy dog that you are
the boss.
This more holistic approach is rather new in dealing with dog behavior
problems
-- but not totally new. Until rather recently, trainers tended to hand
out 1-2-3
remedies to behavioral inquiries, without addressing the underlying malaise
that
affects the owner/dog relationship. Lately, there have been some heartening
efforts toward a more all-encompassing approach that helps owners to identify
problems and solve them, and restructure their relationship with the dog.
Carol
Lea Benjamin's "Alpha Primer" (AKC
Gazette, September 1985) is an excellent example of this, as is the chapter
on
behavior problems in Training Your Dog by Joachim Volhard and Gail Fisher,
(Howell Book House, 1984). Both programs are designed to help you up your
Alpha-status. My RRRR program (Radical Regime for Recalcitrant Rovers)
is
simply, with my own personal flourishes--gathered from too many years of
experience with too many problem dogs and too many problem owners. I offer
my RRRR program to you with my sympathy and
support.
Some final tips before the hit-list: don't modify the program, and keep
it up until
the behavior problem stops. Obviously, act on the behavior problem itself
using
sensible and humane methods, but add the RRRR program if you are
experiencing any of the following:
housetraining problems
destructive chewing
digging
chasing people
chasing cars
jumping up
over-barking
growling/biting
fighting with other dogs
not coming when called
predation
These are all major behavioral problems and they call for a radical approach.
Besides specific corrections for the problem, apply the following program
for the
dog which is exhibiting any of the above problems and apply it today.
1.Give your dog two obedience sessions a day practicing whatever exercises
the dog knows. These sessions should be 10-20
minutes long. Do not praise
physically during this session. Use only verbal
praise and keep the session
moving. Give the commands quickly--dazzle the dog.
2.Have two formal eye contact sessions with your dogs each day. Problem
dogs look at their owners only when they feel like it. Up the eye contact.
Practice formally. Put a leash on. Sit the dog. Step around in front and
animate
the dog saying, "Watch me--I want your attention right now," in a low,
growling
tone of voice. Do not yell. You want three to five seconds, (not minutes)
of
locked, sealed eye contact. Once you get this moment, end with light verbal
praise.
3.Have your dog hold one 30-minute down each day. This is very important.
These downs can be done during TV shows, dinner, reading, etc. Enforce
it! If
your dog doesn't know the down, teach it immediately, as well as the stay
command. For now, sit on the leash and measure out only as much as the
dog
needs to hit the dust. If the dog jumps up on you, whip the leash down
hard with
a "No !" If the dog stress-whines, give the dog a slap under the chin and
say "No
!" If the dog bites on the leash, whip it diagonally out of its mouth.
During this
time no petting, no toys, no soothing, no
nothing. Long downs make you look Alpha.
4.Move your dog into the bedroom for overnight sleeping. Read the chapter
"Where is Your Dog This Evening?" in How To Be Your Dog's Best Friend by
the Monks of New Skete (Little, Brown and Co.). This simple exercise has
tremendous bonding effects. Remember--in the bedroom, problem dogs do not
belong on beds. You'll look like littermates--you want to be Alpha, remember?
If the dog jumps up on the bed, tie the dog to the foot of the bed.
5.Exercise is very important. Problem dogs usually don't get enough aerobic,
sustained exercise, which is what they need to calm them down. Putting
the dog
out in the backyard for three hours is no solution--he isn't exercising,
he's
exercising and resting, or just resting--period. Use a leash and jog or
run with
your dog. Sometimes a bike can be used. Keep moving. A good guide: for
a
little dog 1/4 mile with no stopping, four times a week; for a medium-size
dog
1/2 mile with no stopping, four times a week; and for a large dog
1 mile with no
stopping, four times a week. I'm not even asking you to run with your dog
every
day. And a mile can go by quite quickly. Obviously, if your veterinarian
advises
against exercise for your particular dog, you'll have to skip this step.
6.Whenever you leave home, leave the radio on--easy listening music, not
rock
or talk shows. Stressed tones of voice usually keep dogs on edge--and
talk
shows feature people who call in with problems and stresses.
7.Feed two times a day, if possible in the early morning and the early
afternoon. Place the food down and leave it 10-15 minutes. Leave
the dog and
the food alone in a quiet room. Then, return and pick up the food even
if the dog
hasn't finished. Do not make a "thing" out of the dog's not eating--you
may be
engaging in faulty paralanguage and encouraging the dog not to eat even
as you
try to get it to eat. This method of feeding keeps food in the dog's stomach
during its waking hours, eliminating hunger tension and giving you more
of a
chance for a calmer dog.
8.Re-evaluate the diet--in my opinion high-quality meat meal-based rations
surpass soy-based rations.
Drop all "people" food from the dog's diet. The dogs know and it doesn't
make
you look Alpha.
When your dog doesn't have problems, you can slip in some people food but
not now. Remember, little things add up -- usually to big problems. And
never,
ever add anything to the food after you've placed it down--not because
you
forgot an ingredient, not because you want to encourage the dog to eat.
The dog
will simply learn to wait until something yummy is added, and again, you
won't
look Alpha.
9.Give absolutely no food treats for one month. Yes, that's right, zero
treats.
Zilch. None. Cold turkey. Owners often place themselves in a subordinate
position vis- a-vis the dog by giving too many treats or by giving them
in the
wrong way. Stop for one month. If your dog's problems clear up and the
month
has passed, give one treat a day only if the dog sits. Never give a free
treat carte
blanche--make the dog do something for the treat. But nothing for one month.
10.Stop petting, stroking or fondling your problem dog for minutes, not
to
mention hours, at a time. Get your hands off the dog and pet for only seven
to
ten seconds and only if you've told the dog to "sit" or "down." I know
you love
your dog, but love isn't enough. If it were, you wouldn't be having the
behavior
problem you're having. What your dog needs from you now to help him out
of
his behavioral jam is scratch-type petting, quick and light, not seductive
stroking.
It would shock most owners, but problem dogs are often pooped from
petting--yet they oblige and stay for it because they're addicted to it.
11.Don't allow the dog to go before you in or out of a door. Make the dog
wait
by giving the "stay" command, or at least go together. If you allow the
dog to
barge in or out of the door before you, you're telling him something pretty
powerful about who controls the territory. The dog will say, "I do--after
all, I
always go first and that wimp goes second." If this happens three or four
times a
day, the dog really gets to stake a claim to the territory he enters first,
with
ensuing problems. Quick examples: dog is allowed to barge out onto the
street
and has a problem fighting other dogs. Aren't you setting the stage for
the fighting
by allowing the barge? Another: dog chews destructively when owner is not
home. If you routinely let the dog crash into the house before you, aren't
you
telegraphing to him that the home is his territory--to chew up, to trash,
to
"rearrange" at whim? Don't allow the dog to go before you in or out of
territory!
Again--little things add up, usually to big problems. If that phrase is
beginning to
sound like a mantra in this article, I'm getting through.
12.Pick up all the dog's toys and leave one, perhaps his favorite, down.
That's
all he gets for one month. When a month passes and the problems clear up,
add
one toy a week.
13.Stop playing any and all tug-o-war games. When you let go you look
subordinate, and you're teaching the dog to bite down hard while in your
presence. You're okaying serious mouth play. A no-no for a problem dog.
Play
only fetch and if the dog doesn't bring the object back to you and release
it, get
up and walk away.
14.If you have to have the dog get up and move because he is in the way,
make
the dog move. Don't refrain from doing something or stepping over the dog
because you don't want to bother him. If you're Alpha, you can go where
you
want when you want. Even if you have to change the channel and your dog
is in
front of the TV--make him move. Believe me, if you don't, dogs notice.
Little
things add up.
15.Resolve to stop yelling at your dog and instead speak in a low tone
of voice.
If you yell, the dog will learn to wait for you to yell. Change your tonality,
not
your volume. Most problem dogs are yelled and screamed at. Most have tuned
their owners out and learn to wait for louder and louder yelling until
they finally
don't hear their owners at all. You'll probably find you have to couple
a physical
correction with your lowered tone of voice to get the dog to tune back
to your
station on the dial --
Radio Station Alpha. So don't hesitate to use a shake, a swat under the
chin
or a leash correction if necessary. But stop yelling.
16.If your dog knows the "down" command--really knows it--pull a "surprise
down" on this problem dog once a week. For instance, you're in the kitchen
doing dishes and you hear Rover waltz in. Wheel on him, give both the hand
and
vocal signal and command for "Down!" Recalcitrant Rover will probably look
shocked, and then do it. If not, you'll have to enforce it. The surprise
element is
the key. Remember, just once a week. Each down is a notch on your
Alpha-belt, and combined with your daily long downs you'll look like Eva
Peron--which is how your dog needs to see you right now.
17.If your dog is aggressive, immediately employ a qualified private trainer
to
work with you in your home. Please don't wait. One session can work wonders.
The situation could get out of control. It certainly won't get better without
training. Your dog is just growling, you say? You're in trouble--big trouble.
A
growl is a bite that just hasn't connected yet. Don't delude yourself.
Call a trainer
-- yesterday! Institute the RRRR immediately, even before the trainer gets
there
to tell you what to do specifically for the aggression. You'll make his
task easier
if the RRRR is on a roll.
18.If you have a shy or aggressive dog, neuter the dog right away. Male
or
female. Right away. Don't breed the dog. The problem could be partially
genetic. The spay or neuter operation could help calm the dog and is a
card you
should play, in my experience, regardless of the age of the dog. The only
exception is a very old dog which cannot risk the surgery. Otherwise, in
my
opinion, this step is merited and could be of great help.
19.Whatever the problem is, be sure you understand the corrections that
are
outlined for you by your trainer or in the books you read. Apply those
techniques as well as the RRRR. You'll find that instituting the RRRR rarely
interferes with specific corrective techniques and almost always aids them
in
effect. I've had many clients who did nothing about specific problems such
as
chewing or aggression (usually because they were too busy, too tired, or
too
scared to act on the problem itself) but did begin the RRRR program--and
the
problem lessened and in some cases disappeared. I won't promise you that,
but
you will find the RRRR will greatly aid your specific corrections for whatever
problem plagues your dog.
20.Finally, to balance the harshness of the RRRR program, create a little
jingle
for your dog. The jingle can be based on a popular television ad, and should
be
light, lilting and friendly -- sometimes just substituting your dog's name
where the
product name was in the jingle will achieve the desired effect. Sing the
jingle to
your dog once a day--even from afar. I've used jingles from McDonald's
ads
and toothpaste ads. Just sing it out to your dog once a day--and make eye
contact--and don't go over 10 seconds.